WTF 2 Chainz?! (I went in, ya'll have to forgive me)

I was following the story of a girl who is allegedly suing rapper 2Chainz for releasing a YouTube video of her backstage called, #IsThisYourTHOT?  For people who aren't familiar with the term "THOT" (I know I lost brain cells when I initially heard this term), it means That Hoe Over There. So apparently the story is that the girl (named Tina) snuck backstage and lied to security saying that...

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IF YOU HAD TO CHOOSE: Mind-blowing sex w/out True Love or Awful Sex With A Loving Mate?

Which one would you take over the other? For some people, sex is too important on the list of needs in a relationship to not make it a priority for someone to fulfill.  For others, they don't rely on sex as a basis for fulfilling their happiness in a mate.  So, which one are you?? I feel like this could easily be a Catch 22 because on one hand, it IS POSSIBLE to improve your sex life...

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Porsha from Housewives of Atlanta is Pissed at Wendy Williams

Porsha of "Real Housewives of Atlanta" was interviewed by Atlanta's V-103 about her  disappointment with Wendy Williams and her comments on Porsha's recent divorce. “You know what? It’s just enough. It’s enough of women of power, women of color, not supporting each other. Like, every time I see her say something about me, I’m disappointed in her. She’s calling me ‘less than smart’;...

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My Encounter w/ Brandy and Her Newly Ex-Fiancé

I was at the Essence Fest last year and stayed in the Old Historic French Quarter section of N'aaaalins.  So the first day I was there, I completely passed out in my room but the next day, I was rejuvenated and decided to stroll the city some before the Essence activities began.  I went into Walgreens to buy some makeup and see all the employees in there blushing and holding their phones....

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Harrison (Black Dude from Scandal) Charged With Felony Assault?!

Columbus Short (Harrison on Scandal aka 1/5 of the Gladiators) has been getting in trouble for apparently whooping everybody's ass. Ladies, I'm just as devastated as you are. It seems that Mr. Short has been charged with spousal battery for fighting his wife in front of their 2 and 10 year old children.  He was also charged with child abuse because of the potential emotional trauma he may...

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Women Who Side With Men To Earn COOL POINTS...

Can I just say that I get really irritated when I see women trying to be the "cool one" to guys? They irk a special place in my soul because I feel like some of them do and say so much to earn "cool points" with men. I remember my ex telling me about how a girl he dated for a short period of time showed him how to block people from his Facebook account.  She told him, "You'll thank me later",...

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Melyssa Ford and Her Interview w/ Sway: Life as a Video Chick

Melyssa Ford, a well-known video vixen that has gone from being the eye candy of rappers into the real estate arena visited Sway on the Shade 45 show to talk about her life as a video vixen and what she went through. Some quotes from Ms. Ford - (and my thought responses in PURPLE) "These amateurs out here, who are doing too much for too little, cheapen the business." I definitely agree with this....

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Either We "Smoke, Drink, or we Break-Up"....

So for all the 30's and 30-somethings... Back in the mid-90's...when Marques Houston and the rest of his Immature crew rocked a better "Just for Me" perm than ANY OF US LADIES, he had back-up singers and dancers (yessir). So before Jhene Aiko stepped into the music arena, HER SISTER JAMILA (aka Japollonia) was on the move in a group called Gyrl trying her hand at potential stardom. She rocked...

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Could You Hang Out With Your Exes' New Boo?

(Rumors of Alicia Keys, wife of Swizz Beatz and Mashonda, Ex-wife of Swizz hanging out) I could dammit.  I mean, why not? Honestly, I can speak first hand by saying that when you truly let the past be the past, it's okay to make amends with your ex and whomever is new in their life.  I honestly embrace the idea of trucing with your exes' other half because if there are children involved,...

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What The Hell Future?!

Skip to 5:15 in the video --- Now, I'm certainly not trying to make something out of nothing, but damn it man.  Wendy Williams asks Future about Ciara and why he chose to marry her since so many people in the present generation don't really believe in marriage as much anymore. I feel like his answer was almost saying, well...I'd rather not sleep with all these slut buckets out here so...

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In 2014, What Is "WIFEY MATERIAL"??? -- Keyshia Cole Situation w/ V103 FM

Keyshia Cole got pretty pissed off during an interview on V-103 with Ryan Cameron's assistant Wanda Smith after she asked the question, "do you feel you were wifey material" in relation to the subject matter with her recent split with future ex-husband, Daniel "Boobie" Gibson. “Do you feel like you were wifey material?” Wanda questioned. “You know what? Y’all really f**kin’ with my sh** right...

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Nicki Minaj Says, "It's OK to go After Married Men"

Well, it isn't exactly Nicki.... It's her role as Lydia starring as Cameron Diaz's assistant in the new movie, "The Other Woman" that will open in theaters on April 25th. Diaz's character, Carly finds out that the guy she's really into happens to be married and here's the clip of their discussion about it:  MOVIE PREVIEW TRAILER FOR "THE OTHER WOMAN"  Andddd...although the...

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The Quickest Way To Get Over a Man is to Get Under A New One, if You're Evelyn

How long is a sufficient time to bounce back from a failed relationship?  Can healthy relationships really happen while a person is in the rebound phase? This question came up from the whole Evelyn Lozada new baby/new fiancee' news.  The former basketball, then football, and now baseball "wife" just gave birth to a baby boy with LA Dodgers baseball star Carl Crawford and her older daughter...

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Paula Patton Says She's Not Ready To Take Him Back

At this point, everyone knows about Robin Thicke and his public pleas to wife, Paula Patton about taking him back after they separated.  Robin Thicke has been under fire for many public displays where he touched other women inappropriately and embarrassing his wife in the process. Many have debated whether this was a publicity stunt, but I would imagine that it's hard enough to think straight...

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Fellas! Is She A Burden On Your Wallet?!

I was involved in a discussion where the men and women were debating an online article that encouraged women to start asking guys out on dates more because there are tons of men who are on the quieter side who may be interested, but not as confident to make the first step. So the whole debate thread starts jumping (Shoutout to Sonya Lowry and her show World Next Door TV for inspiring...

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BABY FEVER IN HOLLYWOOD....

JUST A QUICK COLLAGE OF THE BABY LOVE GOING ON IN THE CELEB WORLD.  I'M NOT SURE ABOUT YAYA PULLING THE TIG' OL BITTIES OUT FOR INSTAGRAM BUT HEY, THEY'RE HERS RIGHT?! CIARA IS ABSOLUTELY ADORABLE AS A PREGGO LADYBUG... NORTH IS A BEAUTIFUL COLLAGE OF GOOD GENES... AND I HOPE I LOOK THAT DAMN GOOD AT EVELYN'S AGE WHILE CARRYING A KID... IN THE FAMILY WAY!!!! by Slidely Slides...

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Would You Tell Your Close Friends If Your Sex Life Was on 5000?!

Some people get more descriptive than others when it comes to venting or describing the things they go through in their private relationships.  Of course, it's "politically correct" to say that you keep your private business private, but I believe that most people (MEN and WOMEN) have confidantes that could blackmail in the worst way because they have been told information that others just...

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THIS IS WHY SOME OF YOU DON'T GET ALONG...

A lot of you don't understand each other.  And more importantly, you don't understand that everyone has a LOVE LANGUAGE that is a part of their personality.  I believe that lots of people bump heads and have a hard time in their relationships when they're not tuned into this information about who they're with. So, what's a LOVE LANGUAGE? Some of you might know already and I've talked...

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She Said She Refuses to Add to the Stereotype of Reality TV

I truly commend Laverne Cox, a new personality on the new show, "Orange is the New Black". She is very unique (first and foremost) being the first transsexual to star on a reality TV show. But where she is leaving an interesting mark is deeper than her decision to change her gender. She made a conscious decision back when she starred on Vh1's 2008 show,  "I Want to Work for P. Diddy", to...

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Kanye Said Kimmy's BLOW SKILLS Certified Her As Wife Material

I think it's the big one Elizabeth.  And if you don't know that reference, I'm judging your whole life. Kanye flows about the first time he realized Kim could be his future wife -- saying, "I impregnated your mouth, girl, oooh ... that's when I knew you could be my spouse, girl." I'm sure her combo of A-lister, paparazzi, fashionista, everybody is tuning into this girl appeal had something...

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MEN! Would You Propose Again if you were Turned Down?!

I'm basing this question off of the rumors about Nicole Scherzinger being proposed to 3 whole times by Formula One racer Lewis Hamilton. Supposedly, she finally said YES after reconciling from a year long break up. Personally I believe, if a man truly has identified the woman he wants to marry, he would be very persistent about proving that love to her. Nowadays (though), people (men and women)...

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What Men REALLY THINK About An Assertive, Strong Woman (ALPHA WOMAN)

I asked various gentleman about how they felt when it came to stronger women who can be controlling, assertive, and head strong.  I even asked about the women who come across as more of a "homeboy".  I felt the need to clarify the mentalities of men when it comes to what they truly want in a woman.  And obviously I know all men are different, but I believe it's safe to say they gravitate...

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JLo Said, "Why Can't The MEN be Naked This Time"?!

So, is it really fair to say that women are the only ones who should be shown as a sex object? In JLo's newest video, "I Luh Ya Papi", she gives a very playful way of reversing roles and showing the men as the objects of desire - barely dressed, and being on display for the women to speculate and react to. Women have been sex objects for well over 2 decades in music videos and have went through...

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Oh LAWD...Drake and RiRi are Official Now?! (Where's Sweet Brown At)

TMZ is reporting that the delicate one (Mr. Aubrey) and Ms. Unapologetic are now making things official.  They have gone from the dating phase to actually working on a committed relationship. Sources close to both of them are saying that Rihanna and Drake have been growing closer and closer (she has spent every night with him while Drake has been touring in Europe). RiRi is said to have mentioned...

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WHY MEN CHEAT ON LOYAL WOMEN: An Article

(WHEW! He wrote a lot, but tell me what you think about what he said if your ADD doesn't kill you first) By cheating on a good woman, it makes a weak minded male feel he has POWER over her. It makes him feel he is worth more than her. A male knows if he cheats on a loyal woman, she will care about him more. Yes, initially she will be shocked a man has the audacity to cheat on her, especially...

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