I Am Not Your "FAM"...

Unless you meet the following requirements: 1)  I share intimate details of my life with you.  You know what is going on in my life because I have elected to share that privileged information with you. 2)  I know that I could come to you in the event that I need support of any kind (because you would genuinely be there for me). 3) We share a mutual respect for one another. 4)...

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Do Men Truly Appreciate Aggressive Women???

Not according to Mr. Davis. Melvin Davis (author and writer) says, Aggressive women can be defined as women who: 1. Would ask for a guys number. If a man is interested, he'll ask. 2. Corner you with questions, kind of like a check-off list. For example: a. Where do you work? b. How many kids you have? c. Where do you see yourself in the next 5 years? Of course these are all plausible questions...

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Black Women Are More Conservative In The Bedroom

Yep.  I've had some off the record comments about the last blog post in terms of the freakiness levels and I must say...it's very interesting that I've been told by a few different people that they have personally found BLACK WOMEN TO BE THE MOST CONSERVATIVE IN THE BEDROOM.  I broke this down for one of my friends, and he understood where I was coming from.  Now I'm going to break...

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How Open Minded Are You in the Bedroom???

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY YOU BASTARDS!!!! AHHH...FOR A LOT OF US ON THE EAST COAST WE'RE TRYING TO DIG OUR ASSES OUT OF ALL OF THIS SNOW, BUT STILL THANKFUL FOR THE DAY OFF (AT LEAST, MOST OF US ARE - THEY SHUT PRETTY MUCH EVERYTHING DOWN THIS TIME). ((THINKS TO SELF)) WHY THE HELL AM I WRITING IN ALL CAPS???? Okay, that's better.  But anyway... There's going to be a whole lot of shenanigans...

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Marriages That Last Are Because The Other Person Is FORGIVING!!! (A FORMER WIFE'S STORY)

THIS STORY IS BASED ON A PERSON I KNOW WHO WAS MARRIED FOR ALMOST A DECADE. WE CHOPPED IT UP AND SHE SPILLED HER EXPERIENCE AS A MARRIED WOMAN. PLEASE LEAVE YOUR THOUGHTS, REACTIONS, QUESTIONS, COMMENTS...I'D LOVE TO HEAR WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT THIS ONE. ((HER BEGINNING QUOTE THAT STARTED THE WHOLE CONVO!!!!)) "Marriages that last are usually because one or the other partner is very forgiving!!!...

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What Sexy Women Do Versus Slutty Women... (Reader Opinions)

ALL OF THESE ARE RANDOM ANSWERS FROM THE QUESTION, "WHAT ARE THE TYPES OF THINGS SEXY WOMEN DO VERSUS SLUTTY WOMEN? CAN YOU TELL WHETHER THE ANSWER WAS FROM A MALE OR A FEMALE?  I GOT ANSWERS FROM BOTH!!! "A sexy woman makes dinner for her man....naked." "A slutty woman makes dinner for the team." "I find a slutty woman dating multiple men." "A sexy woman will do things that...

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Can An Overly Sexy Woman Be Appreciated For Her Mind?

Like for real, This is a serious question dammit (note the spelling). There was a very attractive woman I used to work with when I was a Ciroc girl about 5 years ago.  She was upset one night and almost to tears because the guy who she had been talking to for a few months was being pretty stagnant with her about moving forward with their connection.  When she questioned him about it...

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But You're Proposing on Friday Right?!

So I'm at the store trying to buy some memory for my Macbook yesterday (I know I'm a dork, I accept that and so should you) and this sales dude came up to me so he could help get what I needed.  I could tell he was one of those guys that knew how to make his work shift go by faster by making small talk with customers. He told me to forgive him because he was pretty anxious about proposing...

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Do You Judge A Potential Mate Too Harsh, or Not Hard Enough?

There is a difference between a person who has a checklist of what they want and don't want in a mate versus having a standard.  Meaning, there are some people who really are their own worst enemy and will likely have to experience loneliness before they come off of their high horse and stop being so critical of a potential good catch.  But these people shouldn't be confused with a person...

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8 Valentine's Day MUST DOs To Make it The Best Night

  I'm a hopeless romantic in my mind.  But I'm a Scorpio, so sometimes it comes out a little weird.  Like, instead of hitting up the person, I might go into a complete daze while I'm in the shower and daydream about me kicking his ass in a pool game or better yet Madden because I don't know how to play in real life.  (F*** everybody who ever lied to me and said they would teach...

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