I NEED A CHEERLEADER…NOT A “YES” MAN.

The people who you should keep around are the ones who are your cheerleaders even if they don't always agree with the team you're on.  BUT...there is a difference between having people in your circle that are "yes men" and people that support what you do.  So errrr---ummm--- let's break down the difference. If you have a true friend, they will be a voice of reason when you are...

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WHAT’S YOUR PRIORITY SINGLE LADY??? (PART ONE)

I'VE BEEN AWAY FOR A WHILE...BUT NOW I'M BACK MORE LONG-WINDED THAN EVER!!! (HEE-HEE-HA-HA) Dear Single Woman, It's cute to say you're "grinding"...it's really admirable to yip yap about the fact that you're doing "you" (whatever that is), when all you're really doing in your mind is trying to carry the 1 and push the equals sign on the calculator about who will sweep you...

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LETTER TO LIL WAYNE FROM A CHILD

You know, it's one thing to hear a bunch of adults talk about an artist like Lil' Wayne and the fact that many of his lyrics are degrading - especially to women. But But BUT...there is so much to be said about A LITTLE GIRL who sings a song to plead to the very popular and commercialized artist to end his pattern of lyrics that paint a very hurtful and negative picture of women. This is called,...

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WHO HAS A SHADY CIRCLE???

 We all have heard the saying, "Watch the company you keep".  The problem is that many of us have heard it, but haven't LIVED it.  We often allow things like availability, location and boredom to help us figure out who we keep around.  The problem is our judgment system (or lack thereof) often gets us into trouble. If you ever want to know where you are headed and...

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