IF YOU DON’T WANT YOUR MAN TO CHEAT…

I've heard just about everything in life when it comes to keeping your man from cheating. Everything. I've heard that you should make sure you handle biz in the kitchen on the regular...I've heard you should make him feel like he's cheating with you sometimes and have role-play where you're his "whore/slut/sex toy whatever", and I've also heard that it's a lost cause because men will...

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GOLDDIGGER VS PROSTITUTE VS WOMAN: A BREAKDOWN

YES KIDS.  It's time to clear up this situation because there is nothing more annoying in the world than for TERMS and WORDS to be confused for one another.  ("Hating" and Disagreeing being one of them but that's another post.) I'm breaking this down because women are confused on a regular basis about where their head should be when they start dating someone.  The confusion often...

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LET'S TALK ABOUT CHURCH FOLKS

One thing that I've noticed as I get older is that the church population (meaning people that attend a church regularly) have a very powerful reputation in the eyes of people who don't frequent church very often.  Many people that don't make going to church a priority of theirs often say similar things when they talk about why they do not attend church. And yes, I am speaking...

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AM I JEALOUS OF THIEVES???

At the end of the day...when I look back 30-40 years from now and see what I've accomplished and what I've done to prosper in the world, one thing I will stand firm on is the fact that I took the road to help others and do right by other people.  I seen some people I've encountered personally and others that I managed to dodge who make it a mission of theirs to get ahead by 'any...

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STOP TRYING TO FORCE A SITUATION

It's so crazy how we always try to do things within our own strength and half of the time...we blind ourselves with uncertainty and confusion. Deep down we know the answer, but we're afraid to move on what our intuition is telling us. And one thing that my friend had to remind me one day was that we can either react on what God tries to show us...or we can let him come in and shake...

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THE ATTEMPTED MURDER OF CHIVALRY

Chivalry is ENDANGERED...not DEAD.  I definitely have had my experiences in the past with guys that couldn't spell the word R-E-S-P-E-C-T with a broke record of Aretha Franklin in the room, but I wonder sometimes if the majority of ladies have to learn things the hard way when they're dealing with a disrespectful or non-chivalrous other half. I've been amazed at the women I've...

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COLLEGES WILL RIP YOU OFF…READ THIS.

Yeah they will.  It all depends on where you want to go.  In my 3,432,763,098,654,237 years of college, one thing that I can tell ANYONE about deciding to enroll somewhere is that we are in an age where many schools are in the business of making money WAY BEFORE they care about the quality of education you receive.  We have a TON of options now when it comes to education. ...

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I’M NOT GIVING YOU SEX!!!

This guy right here had me snappin' my fingers like I just got blown away with poetry.  That "we're havin' Church in here today" poetry.  Maybe if we can find an artist to make a song about this in a really clever way, then it might get thru to a few ladybugs.  Seriously.  His name is John Lott and he's on my Facebook.  He often speaks his mind, but today he said something...

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EVERYBODY WANTS TO POST A QUOTE...

EVERYBODY WANTS TO POST A QUOTE...  That they DON'T follow themselves.  I've probably done this too so just feel snuggly and warm on the inside knowing that I'm talking about myself too.  I don't understand why people spend so much time posting cute little pictures of quotes or things so somebody will co-sign for them on Facebook - instead of spending more time actually...

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I ONLY HAVE MALE FRIENDS

How many ladies out there have heard another woman who brags about having mostly or all male friends because females "cannot be trusted"? Does anything about that statement make you want to kick her down a flight of steps?  (I'm not violent, I swear.) This entry will be brief (I think) but I'll have PLENTY MORE TO SAY ABOUT IT in future postings. This topic really makes me...

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