LOVE VIOLATIONS: Are Men and Women Equal on This???

So I got a reply from @TeamLashontae on Twitter about what I said in my blog when it comes to the whole Love Triangle, Square, situation where Tae is now dating Teyana Taylor's ex-fiancee. I was asked if I would judge the situation the same way if it were between two guys and one girl? I felt like that was a fair question but the thing is, in society black women have always been judged harshly....

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The Chick That Wants Everyone To Want Her

I was talking about this earlier today.  I've seen all ends of this situation.  I've seen women who actually show you CLEAR AS DAY that they're about that, "I want your man to see what he's missing" life, and I've also been accused of being that woman myself.  Yep. First of all, the ONE CHICK that accused me years ago - if she had spent more time worrying about not coming across...

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Sooo...Was Tae Heckard In the Wrong for Locking Down Teyana Taylor's Ex Fiancée?

My question about the whole thing is, how close do you have to be to a person before their leftovers become "off-limits"? Apparently Tae Heckard (star in show, The Game, actress and video vixen) has caught hell from friends of Teyana Taylor for putting up photos of her being very cozy and happy with Teyana's ex-FIANCEE, Detroit Pistons player, Brandon Jennings.  Tae announced that her and...

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Mimi & Nikko VERSUS Joseline & Steebie J (Commenting on RATCHETNESS)

I do believe this is the recipe that Mona Scott-Young has blended up for her full course menu of well-done ratchetness. A lot of people have spoken their peace about the whole Mimi/Nikko sex tape situation in the past week and most of it is pretty expected in terms of saying Mimi is old, she's a mom, shouldn't be doing this, blah blah blah. HERE'S MY TAKE ON IT THOUGH... What better situation...

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Ma$e the Rapper/Pastor/"I'm Back, but Not Really" Has Been Making Bank Faking "Happy"

Mase, the former Diddy sidekick (back in the "Puffy" days) has been making some pretty good money off of being a devoted hubby to his wife, Twyla selling marriage books, and throwing events based around their relationship. The only problem is that according to TMZ, Mase and his wife have been playing a little game of, "Who can fool the public the BEST?" Mase filed for legal separation, then...

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Who Had The Best ESSENCE Cover??? (PICK ONE!!!)

SO....WHAT DO YOU THINK???  WHO DID IT BEST?!!! “I’m my own stylist and I love it, but I am not trying to make a statement,” - E. Badu  “Although I’m known for my long, colorful locs, I still don’t take my hair too  \ seriously,” says Ledisi, who is loving life with a new album called “The Truth.” “I  experiment a lot, dyeing it and constantly switching...

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I'm Not Your Side-ANYTHING A**hole!

It irks my soul to no imaginable end when a person who is SPOKEN FOR entertains conversation, and people as if they were single, then has the nerve to subliminally post things about home wreckers and the like. For example, I get a message from someone talking to me as if they could possibly be interested in me and I entertain the convo - only to see after checking out their profile that they are...

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Chad Ochocinco Says He Still Loves Evelyn Lozada

Chad Ochocinco recently spoke to Peter Bailey for NiteCap about his ex-wife Evelyn Lozada who just gave birth to a baby boy with Carl Crawford of the LA Dodgers and spoke of his undying love that is still present for her: “Love don’t go nowhere like that. I will always love her. Matter of fact, I love every goddamn body to an extent. It ain’t going no where. I got to know another Evelyn besides...

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Ask La Doodlebug: He Doesn't Want Our Relationship on Social Media...PERIOD.

Question from a loved READER.... "What would you say about two people who are having a growing relationship together, however, one person wants to share information about the relationship but the other wants to keep everything private? Like, if one person wants to take pictures and post on IG, FB, or Twitter, wants to hold hands or kiss in public, wants to tell their friends about whats...

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Zodiac ROLL CALL!!!....Who is THE ONE FOR YOU?! (#HappyHumpDay)

(YOU'RE NOT AN 80'S BABY IF YOU DON'T KNOW CHUCK WOOLERY!!!) For the people that take themselves too seriously and think the zodiac is evil, just skip this post and come back to the next one ((rolls eyes)). But for those who might be a little interested, I wanted to compile a list of all the signs and show what is allegedly the BEST for you and also who is the WORST.  YES...I'm speaking...

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