You THINK I Want You, or You KNOW I Want You?

When you're nice and people take it for more than just common courtesy. Fellas, you guys are NOT the only ones who have this issue.  I've found myself in a situation before where someone assumed that because I opened my mouth to utter syllables that resulted in a sentence, that it obviously meant I was checking for them.  ((Family Feud Buzzer sound))  Negative champ. I truly don't...

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So Do You Choose the Friend Zone, or Settle?

It's crazy to me how I'll see all these memes talking about how women "friend zone" "Mr. Right", but then you'll see the same people talk about how women shouldn't settle for anything less than the best when it comes to who you put your time and energy into. Now, me being a black woman and all, I already know how our input gets received on this topic and it's very unfair to say the least....

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