For some people, sex is too important on the list of needs in a relationship to not make it a priority for someone to fulfill. For others, they don't rely on sex as a basis for fulfilling their happiness in a mate. So, which one are you??
I feel like this could easily be a Catch 22 because on one hand, it IS POSSIBLE to improve your sex life with someone by becoming more in sync with them, but I do believe that not everyone has sexual chemistry. Some people could melt your underroos away while another person might cause you to throw up in your mouth a little bit. But what happens when you get older and because of physical limitations, sex may not be as front and center?
One thing that I believe society has done is made us focus MOSTLY ON SEX and INSTANT GRATIFICATION (I'm passionate about this, thus the excessive use of CAPS). The problem (however) is that sex is temporary, much like a buzz or a high. It doesn't last and a lot of people get into permanent situations because of temporary actions.
I believe it's necessary to understand there's balance in most things. You should commit to a mate that excites you, someone who you are genuinely drawn to, but if the physical side of your life is covering up the fact that you wanna bust a can of pineapples upside your other half's forehead...you should already know it's time to fix that. Whether you make the effort to come to an understanding of each others' needs or part ways, life is way too short to be miserable for the sake of having someone by your side.
