Okay so this is a trending topic on Twitter right now.
First of all, if a woman is single and is doing whatever the heck she feels
like doing, then more power to her for having a bunch of boy toys around that
can give her sound advice when they're not trying to subliminally sleep with
her.
Yeah I said it.
Unless the girl is not very attractive to the guy at all (intoxicated or not), there is a huge chance that the whole "guy best friend" situation is just an excuse to have someone around as a possibility for more.
When two people are in a relationship, the goal is to be on the same page and make one another happy. I very seriously doubt that a husband or boyfriend (with any backbone) would be alright with his girl giggling on the phone with her friend that happens to be a guy. The only word that would stick forefront in the guy's mind would be "opportunity". He knows the average man will seize various opportunities that come through his radar. So why wouldn't a guy that was lucky enough to have a "best lady friend" do the same thing.
When there is an argument, disagreement or fight...could she be running to the Best Guy Friend and telling him all of the intimate details of the relationship? Could she be using this Best Guy Friend to radiate any emotions on since she may be feeling a void in her actual intimate relationship? Ummhmm. Probably so.
When you are in any relationship (not even just an intimate one) it is highly necessary to put yourself in the shoes of the other person.
ASK YOURSELF HOW YOU WOULD FEEL IF YOU HAD TO DEAL WITH YOURSELF.
That humble pie might not be so sour if you looked at a situation like that. #ImJUSTSAYIN.
Yeah I said it.
Unless the girl is not very attractive to the guy at all (intoxicated or not), there is a huge chance that the whole "guy best friend" situation is just an excuse to have someone around as a possibility for more.
When two people are in a relationship, the goal is to be on the same page and make one another happy. I very seriously doubt that a husband or boyfriend (with any backbone) would be alright with his girl giggling on the phone with her friend that happens to be a guy. The only word that would stick forefront in the guy's mind would be "opportunity". He knows the average man will seize various opportunities that come through his radar. So why wouldn't a guy that was lucky enough to have a "best lady friend" do the same thing.
When there is an argument, disagreement or fight...could she be running to the Best Guy Friend and telling him all of the intimate details of the relationship? Could she be using this Best Guy Friend to radiate any emotions on since she may be feeling a void in her actual intimate relationship? Ummhmm. Probably so.
When you are in any relationship (not even just an intimate one) it is highly necessary to put yourself in the shoes of the other person.
ASK YOURSELF HOW YOU WOULD FEEL IF YOU HAD TO DEAL WITH YOURSELF.
That humble pie might not be so sour if you looked at a situation like that. #ImJUSTSAYIN.
