Like for real,
This is a serious question dammit (note the spelling).
There was a very attractive woman I used to work with when I was a Ciroc girl about 5 years ago. She was upset one night and almost to tears because the guy who she had been talking to for a few months was being pretty stagnant with her about moving forward with their connection. When she questioned him about it he told her in plain English:
"I have a hard time seeing past the physical with you".
Mind you, they had known each other for quite some time and both had common interests that you would think would draw a deeper connection. But nah. He wanted to bang the Ciroc letters right off of her shirt and keep it moving...
Now, I know there's plenty of women who are married and linked up and are the epitome of sex symbol. But I also know that there are plenty of men who settle for women that don't necessarily make them happy deep down, but they are good eye candy so that's who they snatch up.
Not to say attractive women aren't of value in other areas, but there are plenty of gorgeous women who really don't have much else to offer beyond their orgasmic exterior (see BUTT CHEEKS ANONYMOUS posting from 2012).
So my question to the men is: If you are visually distracted by a woman in a sexual way, does this take away from other qualities or if she has qualities you appreciate, would it only enhance what you're feeling?
I feel like as a woman, there is a fine line between "sexy" and "slutty".
In my next post, I will have answers for this along with the contrast between sexual and slutty - from different POVs.
STAY TUNED FOR MY SEXY VERSUS SLUTTY POST THAT WILL BE OUT IN A COUPLE OF HOURS!!!!
