AT LEAST YOU THINK I
AM.
The typical mentality of many women these days --- ESPECIALLY women who are used to being appreciated for their beauty, body, or the festivities they partake in as a result of both, are that anyone who is in opposition to their behavior are jealous, wanna-bes or bitter about their (perceived) success.
I was checking out the whole Kimmy Kardash debauchery and I read an AWESOME article right HERE that truly broke down what certain "haters" are truly "hating" on about Kim K.
And it saddens me because I feel like this is what so many people of the adult community allow their children to believe is okay to become. Why is it okay for a 14-year-old to think that as soon as she can get out of the house long enough, she should go find a dude that makes enough money and suck her way into opportunities that will bridge her way into "success" that is defined by the media?
I ASK AGAIN....WHY IS THIS OKAY???
And the even sadder part is the fact that I think Kimmy TRULY believes (like many other lost females) that the majority of other women envy them.
So I'm about to break down what I see there is to envy: (Fellas, don't drool too hard)
The typical mentality of many women these days --- ESPECIALLY women who are used to being appreciated for their beauty, body, or the festivities they partake in as a result of both, are that anyone who is in opposition to their behavior are jealous, wanna-bes or bitter about their (perceived) success.
I was checking out the whole Kimmy Kardash debauchery and I read an AWESOME article right HERE that truly broke down what certain "haters" are truly "hating" on about Kim K.
And it saddens me because I feel like this is what so many people of the adult community allow their children to believe is okay to become. Why is it okay for a 14-year-old to think that as soon as she can get out of the house long enough, she should go find a dude that makes enough money and suck her way into opportunities that will bridge her way into "success" that is defined by the media?
I ASK AGAIN....WHY IS THIS OKAY???
And the even sadder part is the fact that I think Kimmy TRULY believes (like many other lost females) that the majority of other women envy them.
So I'm about to break down what I see there is to envy: (Fellas, don't drool too hard)
She's
on top of the world, right?! Who wouldn't want to be beautiful, the most
talked about, or able to buy practically whatever she wants?
NOW: Somebody flip this
chick inside out. Is the inside doing as well as the outside is?
How many people have lost their soul because the money just smelled too good to resist the f*ckery associated with obtaining it?
How many people have lost their lives to drug overdoses because the high of being THE MOST POPULAR, OR THE MOST IN DEMAND, OR THE MOST BROADCASTED came to a halt and they didn't know how to deal with it?
In time, that stuff fades. Kim's beauty will fade one day. Life is short and "living it to the fullest" DOES mean you should take chances, but not at the expense of your MORALS and definitely your CONSCIENCE. Hopefully you have one. And what will Kim K. have left if the whole basis of her life was subject to the visual? Or the sexual? I don't know this chick obviously. But it IS obvious that a moral code is lost.
Everybody doesn't measure success in dollar increments or in media exposure. My parents have been married for 30 years as the BEST OF FRIENDS and many people that believe in GOD honestly believe that THAT is what success looks like. To have a true bond and have trust, and a peace of mind about both is to REALLY know what success is. To know what it means to be able to rely on a person and to know that you have safe people to go to when you don't look your best, or feel your best, or you messed up something. You can fall into the arms of someone who WON'T judge you or break you down because they honestly care for your well-being.
THAT IS SUCCESS.
Not the, "F the world", "get money" mentality (that really sounds like a person who's been hurt). Not the "Get over on them before they get me" mindset. All of that is recipe for disaster - whether it's now or later...IT ALL FADES AND TURNS TO DUST. Because most people only want it to show it off because they want others to envy THEM. This is BECAUSE...they are insecure -- beautiful or not.
Video vixens, World Star Hip-Hop Honeys and all the "wanna-bes": UNDERSTAND THAT BEING GROUNDED MORALLY WILL TAKE YOU FURTHER THAN ANY HIP-HOP CAMP OR ATHLETE'S HUSH MONEY. Notice how the Basketball Wives may enjoy nice flights, dinners, vacations, and etc. but it damn sure didn't change their drama or their emotions from being jacked up on a REGULAR basis. But I know, you didn't even read past the part where I said nice flights, dinners, and vacations. OR, you're a "BOSS" that doesn't get caught up in emotions. It's just business for you...I know.
You'll learn one day though.
How many people have lost their soul because the money just smelled too good to resist the f*ckery associated with obtaining it?
How many people have lost their lives to drug overdoses because the high of being THE MOST POPULAR, OR THE MOST IN DEMAND, OR THE MOST BROADCASTED came to a halt and they didn't know how to deal with it?
In time, that stuff fades. Kim's beauty will fade one day. Life is short and "living it to the fullest" DOES mean you should take chances, but not at the expense of your MORALS and definitely your CONSCIENCE. Hopefully you have one. And what will Kim K. have left if the whole basis of her life was subject to the visual? Or the sexual? I don't know this chick obviously. But it IS obvious that a moral code is lost.
Everybody doesn't measure success in dollar increments or in media exposure. My parents have been married for 30 years as the BEST OF FRIENDS and many people that believe in GOD honestly believe that THAT is what success looks like. To have a true bond and have trust, and a peace of mind about both is to REALLY know what success is. To know what it means to be able to rely on a person and to know that you have safe people to go to when you don't look your best, or feel your best, or you messed up something. You can fall into the arms of someone who WON'T judge you or break you down because they honestly care for your well-being.
THAT IS SUCCESS.
Not the, "F the world", "get money" mentality (that really sounds like a person who's been hurt). Not the "Get over on them before they get me" mindset. All of that is recipe for disaster - whether it's now or later...IT ALL FADES AND TURNS TO DUST. Because most people only want it to show it off because they want others to envy THEM. This is BECAUSE...they are insecure -- beautiful or not.
Video vixens, World Star Hip-Hop Honeys and all the "wanna-bes": UNDERSTAND THAT BEING GROUNDED MORALLY WILL TAKE YOU FURTHER THAN ANY HIP-HOP CAMP OR ATHLETE'S HUSH MONEY. Notice how the Basketball Wives may enjoy nice flights, dinners, vacations, and etc. but it damn sure didn't change their drama or their emotions from being jacked up on a REGULAR basis. But I know, you didn't even read past the part where I said nice flights, dinners, and vacations. OR, you're a "BOSS" that doesn't get caught up in emotions. It's just business for you...I know.
You'll learn one day though.
