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Showing posts with label Yankee Doodle. Show all posts

Could you date someone you thought was dumb as rocks?



Alright now, damn that.

This one is for men and women - whether you're involved or not, most of us have preferences (some need to aim lower or higher depending on how accurate your self-image is - that probably wasn't nice, but whatever).  

I feel like the preferences are more about appearances for most people but for me personally, I COULD NOT talk to a guy who I'd have to dumb down my whole existence for. 

Some chicas are in bed right now with the dude with the Super Size Yankee Doodle and a Happy Meal conversation.  I'd probably drown myself in sink water having a man like that. I don't know if it's the same for men though.  I feel like I know some men who would rather have a chick that isn't as quick as she could be.  Hopefully I'm wrong though.  Do men even care about this?

On the same tip, I wouldn't want someone who talked down to me because they thought they knew every damn thing.  That condescending tone is definitely one good way to channel my inner Sailor-Scorpion-Samurai-Slow kick to the jaw reflex I got going on behind my Care Bear exterior.  (Damn anyone who doesn't believe I'm a nice person).

I feel the same way about men who act like a doormat.  They don't have any threshold of how they should be treated.  Now I KNOOOOOOWWWWWWW men have this mindset about women.  This is your mental separation of a possible "keeper" versus a "to do list item".  And yes, most of these "doormat men" call themselves "nice guys" when they really need to change it to "delicate dudes that need to eat a man the f**k up sandwich".
I'm just saying, please stop confusing "nice" with missing a backbone.  

It might be worse for me because intellectually, I feel like I need someone who I can talk to and have a decent (doesn't have to be perfect) exchange with about things that are important to us.  That would affect how attracted I am hands down.  Not that I need for us to talk all the time, but he should be able to.  I could see a handsome, physical package of a man all day, but if he talked like Waka Flocka aka 2nd grade spelling bee, I'd disappear right before I rubbed his ribcage.  Giggity.  Just joking.  

Anywho,  I'm really curious about the male side of this equation.  I feel like a lot people have lower standards (if any at all), but is intelligence on the list at all?  And if not, why?

Hmmmmmm????

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