Yeah she did. I was surfing the Facebook waves and
came across this picture of a guy I knew with his arm around a girl and the
caption below the picture said, "I don't have to have his last name I know
I'm his main girl and y'all hatin' a** chicks are just thirsty for what we
have...(blah-blah-blah)" - it said something like that.
Alrighty...sooooo my antennas went up about this whole situation because even
though I don't talk to the guy and could care less about his personal life, the
thing that got to me was the fact that the girl felt the need to be defensive
on the caption of her picture.
And why is that? It was a pretty cute picture of a couple, but the caption communicated one thing to me. 'This is on my conscience and I need to get it off my chest'. It said to me that the girl probably knows deep down that she needs to demand for more, but she will accept being the "wifey" instead of the ACTUAL wife. There IS a difference. And that's not to say that ladies shouldn't stick by their men if they both need time to get ready for marriage (fellas, don't jump in my case). I'm merely saying that too many women parade around and celebrate out loud about being a guy's MAIN chick when she should be making sure she is his ONLY chick. Unless the swinger situation is cool with you, and in that case handle your biz, who am I to judge?
But really, I get tired of seeing ladybugs constantly talk about how they're being hated on while the chick that still has your man's scent on her clothes and God knows what else is laughing silently because you are publicly in a relationship and he's not. Don't try to convince the world on social media that you are the "it" girl for him while secretly knowing he isn't as committed as you are. Then you reward his behavior by letting the world know he has a dummy....oh I'm sorry...A "Ride or Die" chick who will stick by him regardless of the fool he has made you look like.
I am not saying dump anyone. I'm just saying watch your words and make sure they are real before you get happy doing the "wifey" dance while Jumpoff Jackie just got done doing that thing to your man that you were too tired to do the night before. Make him earn the title of being your ONLY just like you have to earn the title of being his. The Doodle Defense rests. OH YEAH...HAPPY 2012!!!!
And why is that? It was a pretty cute picture of a couple, but the caption communicated one thing to me. 'This is on my conscience and I need to get it off my chest'. It said to me that the girl probably knows deep down that she needs to demand for more, but she will accept being the "wifey" instead of the ACTUAL wife. There IS a difference. And that's not to say that ladies shouldn't stick by their men if they both need time to get ready for marriage (fellas, don't jump in my case). I'm merely saying that too many women parade around and celebrate out loud about being a guy's MAIN chick when she should be making sure she is his ONLY chick. Unless the swinger situation is cool with you, and in that case handle your biz, who am I to judge?
But really, I get tired of seeing ladybugs constantly talk about how they're being hated on while the chick that still has your man's scent on her clothes and God knows what else is laughing silently because you are publicly in a relationship and he's not. Don't try to convince the world on social media that you are the "it" girl for him while secretly knowing he isn't as committed as you are. Then you reward his behavior by letting the world know he has a dummy....oh I'm sorry...A "Ride or Die" chick who will stick by him regardless of the fool he has made you look like.
I am not saying dump anyone. I'm just saying watch your words and make sure they are real before you get happy doing the "wifey" dance while Jumpoff Jackie just got done doing that thing to your man that you were too tired to do the night before. Make him earn the title of being your ONLY just like you have to earn the title of being his. The Doodle Defense rests. OH YEAH...HAPPY 2012!!!!
