Why Do Ladybugs Fake Orgasms So Much?

Is it a common courtesy thing to pretend like you received the ultimate sexual gratification from your partner in bed?  Is this like a "fake it til you make it" kind of thing?

Some women are more honest while other women seem to contribute to the boosted egos of men who believe they've laid the smack, when in reality they probably teased the lady cave, ticked at the letters E and F but no G spot (I'm going to stop trying to build up these metaphors because I suck at it right now).  You get my point though.

So, what's the disconnect?

Researchers from Temple University believe they have finally found the answer.

After surveying 366 women between the ages of 18 and 32, researcher Erin Cooper found that among the 60 percent who said they fake it, many of them admitted doing it because they were scared of intimacy or "insecure about their sexual functioning."

My guess is also that the mental to physical connection is not fully in place.  I believe that you have to truly be engaged from both angles to build up that height of sexual climax and many times, ladybugs don't get to that point - which results in one-sided gratification.

BASICALLY MEANING...

She needs mental love making as well.  She wants to feel beautiful, desired, and like the only person that exists to you (especially in that moment).  That's not to say she needs you to be delicate with her (smiles), but to help create chemistry within that moment will be priceless for you and her - trust me.

TOP MOOD SETTERS

1) Good conversation - engage her THOUGHTS before you engage in her panties

2) Pre-Planning - when a woman can see you've actually put conscious thought into a special time with her (and I don't mean money...I mean the EFFORT), you will set sail to her lady waters like a BOSS.

3) Genuine ATTENTION - OMG...I cannot stress this enough.  If she knows she has your undivided...she will divide those legs with excitement.

4) Subtle touching/massage - build the tension up.  Tell her how she looks, what you want to do, what you're thinking, doesn't have to be poetry but your gentle touch mixed with your voice is recipe for fun rodeo adventures.

5) BE PLAYFUL - ENJOY each other's company!!!!  Try to be each other's natural stress reliever and play something together to create laughter and good times.  Those moments count!!! 

Ladybugs...just let me know if I left anything out.  And happy humping to everyone!!! (I'm an ass, I know) 

MUAAAAAAHHHHHH!!!!

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How Open Minded Are You in the Bedroom???

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY YOU BASTARDS!!!!

AHHH...FOR A LOT OF US ON THE EAST COAST WE'RE TRYING TO DIG OUR ASSES OUT OF ALL OF THIS SNOW, BUT STILL THANKFUL FOR THE DAY OFF (AT LEAST, MOST OF US ARE - THEY SHUT PRETTY MUCH EVERYTHING DOWN THIS TIME).

((THINKS TO SELF)) WHY THE HELL AM I WRITING IN ALL CAPS????

Okay, that's better.  But anyway...

There's going to be a whole lot of shenanigans going on in the bedroom this weekend if you haven't dried each other out from being snowed in together.  I'm seriously anticipating a LOT of November/December babies from all the snow closings!!!

So, I remember when I turned 30 I had a party with my girlfriends and we did the whole sex toy demo and had drinks, food and girl talk.  We opened up a forum about how open minded everyone was in the bedroom and got on the topic of watching porn with your mate.  I was really surprised at hearing how many ladybugs weren't doing this!!! And I don't know if it was because they really don't like it or need it, but I guess I was wondering if it was an intimidation there or if it's more of a turn OFF for some people.

I really want you to tell me what you think about this one (males and females) leave me a comment - (YOU CAN POST ANONYMOUSLY TOO).

Also, with the sex toys.  I get that many men are like HELL NO when it comes to toys being used on them, but are there guys who wouldn't prefer their lady to use them either?  I've heard stories about this as well and wondered how most guys felt about them being used or watching.

Personally, I feel like people who are secure with themselves and the person they're with are the most confident people with these extra things.  I definitely feel like some people just feel threatened by things being introduced or that it means in some way that they're not doing their job - which isn't true.  I don't think.  LOL...

Help me out on this one though.  What do you all think about this?!


PS - Vibrators though.  I'm just saying everyone should have them.  Men and women.  It's not just for single ladies.  Imagination people.  Yep.

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