How Open Minded Are You in the Bedroom???

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY YOU BASTARDS!!!!

AHHH...FOR A LOT OF US ON THE EAST COAST WE'RE TRYING TO DIG OUR ASSES OUT OF ALL OF THIS SNOW, BUT STILL THANKFUL FOR THE DAY OFF (AT LEAST, MOST OF US ARE - THEY SHUT PRETTY MUCH EVERYTHING DOWN THIS TIME).

((THINKS TO SELF)) WHY THE HELL AM I WRITING IN ALL CAPS????

Okay, that's better.  But anyway...

There's going to be a whole lot of shenanigans going on in the bedroom this weekend if you haven't dried each other out from being snowed in together.  I'm seriously anticipating a LOT of November/December babies from all the snow closings!!!

So, I remember when I turned 30 I had a party with my girlfriends and we did the whole sex toy demo and had drinks, food and girl talk.  We opened up a forum about how open minded everyone was in the bedroom and got on the topic of watching porn with your mate.  I was really surprised at hearing how many ladybugs weren't doing this!!! And I don't know if it was because they really don't like it or need it, but I guess I was wondering if it was an intimidation there or if it's more of a turn OFF for some people.

I really want you to tell me what you think about this one (males and females) leave me a comment - (YOU CAN POST ANONYMOUSLY TOO).

Also, with the sex toys.  I get that many men are like HELL NO when it comes to toys being used on them, but are there guys who wouldn't prefer their lady to use them either?  I've heard stories about this as well and wondered how most guys felt about them being used or watching.

Personally, I feel like people who are secure with themselves and the person they're with are the most confident people with these extra things.  I definitely feel like some people just feel threatened by things being introduced or that it means in some way that they're not doing their job - which isn't true.  I don't think.  LOL...

Help me out on this one though.  What do you all think about this?!


PS - Vibrators though.  I'm just saying everyone should have them.  Men and women.  It's not just for single ladies.  Imagination people.  Yep.

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8 Valentine's Day MUST DOs To Make it The Best Night

 
I'm a hopeless romantic in my mind.  But I'm a Scorpio, so sometimes it comes out a little weird.  Like, instead of hitting up the person, I might go into a complete daze while I'm in the shower and daydream about me kicking his ass in a pool game or better yet Madden because I don't know how to play in real life.  (F*** everybody who ever lied to me and said they would teach me too...BASTARDS).

Anyway I feel like, there should be those days where a man and a woman that are together (or headed in that direction) do those things that re-energize them as a couple like, changing the scenery/having a getaway weekend or trying something new.

But if you don't have the funds or availability, or if you're a wuss about that trying something new situation...you can at least have great SEX.  Or better sex.

For the ladies, I feel like it's always fun to prepare for an evening with your man where you can get your place (or hotel room for the night/weekend) all SEXIFIED (note the word).  For creative minds like myself, you can really show him how much you appreciate him.

For the fellas, I would make this the time you really tap into something your lady is into. 

VALENTINE'S DAY/EVENING/NIGHT CHECKLIST:

So, did I forget anything??? The first person to add to my list in the comments section AND enter their email in the newsletter section (right side of the website) will receive a "Love Kit" in the mail with some freebies from Slumber Parties and toiletries - compliments of Simple Sensitive Skin Experts. 

 (( Muah ))

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