I've heard
just about everything in life when it comes to keeping your man from cheating. Everything. I've heard that you should make sure you handle biz in
the kitchen on the regular...I've heard you should make him feel like he's
cheating with you sometimes and have role-play where you're his
"whore/slut/sex toy whatever", and I've also heard that it's a lost
cause because men will probably cheat regardless.
I was watching a YouTube clip that a lovely lady I'm friends with on Facebook shared on her profile. It was a dude explaining to the ladies that if you want to keep your man from cheating, you need to stay away from men who are well-endowed AND men with money. Funny as it was, he was so sincere about his argument.
Well, that seems like it makes perfect sense because of his logic. He said that most men like to show off something they possess that is worthy of bragging rights. Fair enough.
But I know that even the "Tiny Timmys" probably have had their share of extra-curricular booty. Umm hmm.
First of all, there are PLENTY of reasons why men cheat. Women as well, but the problem is not the external factors of food, sex, and money. It's the lack of INTERNAL FOUNDATION.
This is what I know about people who have a relationship with GOD. NO THEY ARE NOT PERFECT AND NEVER WILL BE. THEY WILL MESS UP, THEY MIGHT TALK A LITTLE TRASH, MIGHT EVEN SLAP SOMEBODY IF THEY'RE FEELING FROGGY ENOUGH (these are jokes).......BUT.....
Having a relationship with GOD helps to direct a person to make better decisions. Sure...people who have no relationship with GOD aren't all vicious people with a vendetta out to hurt someone....BUT...
in times where they could make a decision that is out of love, maturity, is morally the right thing to do, or in their best interest in the LONG RUN....many times....they might choose a more selfish route. We need spiritual guidance to help lead us to a better frame of mind.
When the secretary's fast behind at your man's job wants to stick around an extra hour to see if he feels like biting her bait...TRUST ME when I say you would rather have a man who knows GOD to make that judgment call rather than a man who does not. Especially if you've gotten a little lazy with your better half and like to wear Army Fatigues to bed with the hard rollers and your favorite doo-rag. (I need the ladybugs that do this to cut that out too.)
I was watching a YouTube clip that a lovely lady I'm friends with on Facebook shared on her profile. It was a dude explaining to the ladies that if you want to keep your man from cheating, you need to stay away from men who are well-endowed AND men with money. Funny as it was, he was so sincere about his argument.
Well, that seems like it makes perfect sense because of his logic. He said that most men like to show off something they possess that is worthy of bragging rights. Fair enough.
But I know that even the "Tiny Timmys" probably have had their share of extra-curricular booty. Umm hmm.
First of all, there are PLENTY of reasons why men cheat. Women as well, but the problem is not the external factors of food, sex, and money. It's the lack of INTERNAL FOUNDATION.
This is what I know about people who have a relationship with GOD. NO THEY ARE NOT PERFECT AND NEVER WILL BE. THEY WILL MESS UP, THEY MIGHT TALK A LITTLE TRASH, MIGHT EVEN SLAP SOMEBODY IF THEY'RE FEELING FROGGY ENOUGH (these are jokes).......BUT.....
Having a relationship with GOD helps to direct a person to make better decisions. Sure...people who have no relationship with GOD aren't all vicious people with a vendetta out to hurt someone....BUT...
in times where they could make a decision that is out of love, maturity, is morally the right thing to do, or in their best interest in the LONG RUN....many times....they might choose a more selfish route. We need spiritual guidance to help lead us to a better frame of mind.
When the secretary's fast behind at your man's job wants to stick around an extra hour to see if he feels like biting her bait...TRUST ME when I say you would rather have a man who knows GOD to make that judgment call rather than a man who does not. Especially if you've gotten a little lazy with your better half and like to wear Army Fatigues to bed with the hard rollers and your favorite doo-rag. (I need the ladybugs that do this to cut that out too.)
