I was talking about this earlier today. I've seen all ends of this situation. I've seen women who actually show you CLEAR AS DAY that they're about that, "I want your man to see what he's missing" life, and I've also been accused of being that woman myself. Yep.
First of all, the ONE CHICK that accused me years ago - if she had spent more time worrying about not coming across like a man and being so damn unattractive, my attractiveness wouldn't have made her feel some type of way. (Yeah, I said it). Secondly, I find it very funny when someone who turns out to be promiscuous as hell would lie on someone else of being about that life. Gotta love a**holes that deflect what they actually do themselves on other people.
THEN, I was talking to a dear friend of mine, and she told me how she actually grew up as a teen watching her mom deal with some of the shadiest characters on the planet where a woman was actually masturbating on her mom's couch while others were in the house! And given the truthful nature of my friend (I know she doesn't make stuff up like some other people I used to be around), I believe that actually happened.
But even on a less WTF note, I don't think there's anything wrong with a beautiful confident woman being bubbly or high-spirited, but I have been around some women who really stunt in front of other women's men and then have the audacity to say that the girlfriend or wife is insecure. I was thinking, you need to be glad she's only insecure and not violent because if I was her, you'd be finding your teeth on the ground. Proud Scorpio in the building ((raises hands to the roof)).
I don't play that crap, I'm sorry - people can say what they want to say. If I invest my precious time, energy and my heart with a person, WHAT WE ARE NOT GOING TO DO is entertain someone coming through smiling in my face and my man's face while she's secretly scooting closer towards him.
Unless they have an open relationship dynamic, she needs to sit down or be sat down.
But there is a difference between women who cry for attention, and women who just get it anyway. Every woman who turns heads is not an attention whore. She might just have a presence. There's a Yin and Yang to many things.
