It is SUCH a waste when I see attractive people --- doesn't
matter if it's a male or a female that are visibly a catch...but that's IT.
THIS IS WHERE I COME UP WITH THE EXPRESSION, "BUTT CHEEKS ANONYMOUS".
You have the attractive ladybug who is obviously a nice arm piece for a guy, but she offers absolutely NOTHING but just that. The cheeks. Yep. The identity is lost...therefore she is a nameless, pointless booty.
And YES...men can be guilty of this as well. You'll usually find them having weak conversation and the face of Heaven with a dash of glory.
We can speak about this when it comes to personality, sex, or anything else. I think there are so many people who think the only thing they need to bring to the table is the visual package. I get tired of dudes who think that if they are a 6 ft walking display of GQ, cute face, or well-endowed, that this is the basis for being a great catch for a woman.
There was this guy I dated for T-minus 10 seconds of my life that I'll never get back. He was about 6'3, basketball stature, well-dressed, his cologne was like POW... (also known as...Fine as HELL dude)
BUTTTT!!!!
He had the conversation of a little league MVP. It was hard for us to really create chemistry because he had little to nothing to talk about with me. And some would say that he might have just put me in a category and didn't want to pursue anything meaningful with me for whatever reason. But um...that's just the thing. I couldn't shake him for about 2 months after my stomach couldn't take anymore of his sleep-inspiring presence.
I doubt very seriously that he lacked interest with me. I believe he just relied on being attractive to be a good catch. Now, being pretty or handsome may get you far in life...I mean, look at the Basketball Wives and all the other reality shows out there now! If you aspire to be a talentless, psuedo-celeb then I guess my argument can go in the dumpster right along with your IQ, but let's just say that you actually want to find someone that you have things in common with. How the hell would you figure that out by having a 3rd grade conversation? Well, I guess if both of you do, then you're made for each other.
When I tried to work as a promoter for a couple of months, I met several ladybugs who reminded me of this whole topic. Not all of them were like that, so don't think I'm saying all chicks who frequent the club are airheads but.....I PERSONALLY know women who have a mentality like their physical attributes will somehow end up paying their way through life.
There are too many people who don't understand that they need to have something OF SUBSTANCE to bring to the table too. OR they are in denial and refuse to do a self-evaluation. Take interest in yourself long enough to fine tune your NON-SUPERFICIAL attributes. I guarantee your conversation will be better along with your self-esteem and your dating/love life.
Just a suggestion.
THIS IS WHERE I COME UP WITH THE EXPRESSION, "BUTT CHEEKS ANONYMOUS".
You have the attractive ladybug who is obviously a nice arm piece for a guy, but she offers absolutely NOTHING but just that. The cheeks. Yep. The identity is lost...therefore she is a nameless, pointless booty.
And YES...men can be guilty of this as well. You'll usually find them having weak conversation and the face of Heaven with a dash of glory.
We can speak about this when it comes to personality, sex, or anything else. I think there are so many people who think the only thing they need to bring to the table is the visual package. I get tired of dudes who think that if they are a 6 ft walking display of GQ, cute face, or well-endowed, that this is the basis for being a great catch for a woman.
There was this guy I dated for T-minus 10 seconds of my life that I'll never get back. He was about 6'3, basketball stature, well-dressed, his cologne was like POW... (also known as...Fine as HELL dude)
BUTTTT!!!!
He had the conversation of a little league MVP. It was hard for us to really create chemistry because he had little to nothing to talk about with me. And some would say that he might have just put me in a category and didn't want to pursue anything meaningful with me for whatever reason. But um...that's just the thing. I couldn't shake him for about 2 months after my stomach couldn't take anymore of his sleep-inspiring presence.
I doubt very seriously that he lacked interest with me. I believe he just relied on being attractive to be a good catch. Now, being pretty or handsome may get you far in life...I mean, look at the Basketball Wives and all the other reality shows out there now! If you aspire to be a talentless, psuedo-celeb then I guess my argument can go in the dumpster right along with your IQ, but let's just say that you actually want to find someone that you have things in common with. How the hell would you figure that out by having a 3rd grade conversation? Well, I guess if both of you do, then you're made for each other.
When I tried to work as a promoter for a couple of months, I met several ladybugs who reminded me of this whole topic. Not all of them were like that, so don't think I'm saying all chicks who frequent the club are airheads but.....I PERSONALLY know women who have a mentality like their physical attributes will somehow end up paying their way through life.
There are too many people who don't understand that they need to have something OF SUBSTANCE to bring to the table too. OR they are in denial and refuse to do a self-evaluation. Take interest in yourself long enough to fine tune your NON-SUPERFICIAL attributes. I guarantee your conversation will be better along with your self-esteem and your dating/love life.
Just a suggestion.
