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What Sexy Women Do Versus Slutty Women... (Reader Opinions)



ALL OF THESE ARE RANDOM ANSWERS FROM THE QUESTION, "WHAT ARE THE TYPES OF THINGS SEXY WOMEN DO VERSUS SLUTTY WOMEN?

CAN YOU TELL WHETHER THE ANSWER WAS FROM A MALE OR A FEMALE?  I GOT ANSWERS FROM BOTH!!!



"A sexy woman makes dinner for her man....naked."
"A slutty woman makes dinner for the team."


"I find a slutty woman dating multiple men."


"A sexy woman will do things that you enjoy, and make them sexy.  Things that are ordinary."
"A sexy woman can make a man cum just by what she says, even though it may not be explicit."
"A sexy woman knows what to wear that presses the right buttons."


"A woman using her sexiness compared to a woman being slutty is the difference between using a sniper rifle and a grenade.  One is precise and intentional, while the other is all over the place and fishing."


"She shows a preview of her assets, but not the whole thing. A slutty woman dresses inappropriately, picks up guys, looks like she's down to f***. Has no girlfriends. A sexy woman seems effortless to be that. She doesn't try to be sexy, she just is."



"It's less about what they do. It's more about self-confidence and security. A woman that's sexy is comfortable with who she is. Not just a physical asset. A slut puts herself out there sexually as a way to feel whole."



"A sexy woman knows how to take control of their man and let it be known that he belongs to her without even saying a word."
"A woman is sexy through her actions...her smile, her smell..."



"Sexy woman does not claim she's "all that!" She exudes it! Slutty women say stuff like, "I'm a Boss Bitch" - No bueno."



"For the most part they do too much too fast, too eager. Obsessive about sex and active or would act upon most of their desires. There are some sluts that are just inactive for a while and when you run into them they might just be on break, but they'll tell you that they're celibate..lol. A lot of the other things have a gray area - just because you do certain freaky things doesn't mean you're a slut or slutty."




"The number one or two thing I think a sexy woman does is show a form of respect...not just for a man, but for herself as well."



"A sexy woman can flirt with a smile and clever talk. A slutty woman flirts with provocative gestures, limited convo, and other slut antics."



"Slutty women post thirst pics on social media."
"A sexy woman doesn't have to convince someone she's sexy.  Everyone sees it.  Think En Vogue versus Pussy Cat Dolls."



"The difference in how they dress, for one. If we went to the club and you're leaving little to the imagination, that's slutty. But on the other hand, you can rock a dress that hugs your figure just right, leaves a lot to the imagination and still be sexy."




It's not what she does. It's who she is trying to please. If she's doing it for someone else, it could be slutty. If it's who she is what and what she really wants to do, it's sexy.




"A sexy woman can carry herself with poise and be humble, but well put together naturally prevailing an interest due to curiosity of her mind, spirit, flow and body language. It gives off the right balance making everything about her sexy from the style of her hair, the clothes she wears, the sound of her voice and how she talks. It can all be so simple.... and SEXY."




"Slutty is forced, fights for the attention, throws herself, and has to work HARD with intent to entice and never stable. Bounces around and thinks it's satisfying and gratifying to sexually do so, but doesn't realize it subtracts from their value. No matter how much they lie to themselves."



"A sexy woman exudes mystery. A slut, well you know the rest."





WHICH ONES DO YOU THINK WERE BY MEN AND WHICH ONES DO YOU THINK WERE BY WOMEN???  ((SNORT LAUGHS))

STOP TRYING TO FORCE A SITUATION


I always wondered what that meant when my ex used to say that to me.  I was about 21...22 and he would always say that I wasn't acting normally.  I kept racking my brain and trying to figure out why he was giving me such a hard time because although my mind was moving at 3000 miles per hour, I felt like I was being myself.  We went out to a party one time and there were a ton of chicks there that I thought looked more voluptuous and prettier than I did.  I tried to be chill about my insecurities and "drink it off", but it came out through my slick remarks and "sideway" comments about how I knew that my boyfriend (at the time) was looking at the other women in the room.  It got even worse the more I drank and I treated my boyfriend like he had already done something because I was insecure deep down and wanted to mentally prepare myself for the worst.

This is one thing I realize now that I am older and more educated (book-wise and about life).  Your subconscious mind is just as powerful as your conscious mind.  Most of what you contain internally comes out in some way and if you are insecure - there is little you can do to truly hide that from a person that knows you.

I'm not saying that you can't fool anybody about what you're thinking or feeling, but I am saying that the things we dwell on in our minds WILL END UP BEING EXPRESSED THRU OUR ACTIONS IN SOME WAY.

This is why it's so important to be honest with yourself about things that you feel.  Negative thoughts DO become negative actions unless you fight negativity with POSITIVE ENERGY.  If you are constantly around someone who feeds you negative emotions or energy, it will impact you and influence you subconsciously.  And like I said before...
Your subconscious mind is just as powerful as your conscious mind.

And why you ask?  Because of THE POWER OF REPETITION.  That's how we memorize information right?  That's how things stick in our head.  And if actions do more than words, why wouldn't repeated acts of negativity do the same thing in our brains?  Our subconscious mind helps us store information. (I'm really not trying to sound like a science book but I'm telling you some good stuff right here so keep reading damn it...)  The more you feed your mind with negative thoughts or insecurities, the more you will act the way you think.  

If this applies to anyone reading...  Ask yourself WHY you don't act naturally?  Or better question, does the person/people you are dealing with make you feel as if you have to be aware of yourself in order to be around them?  

Being comfortable in your skin is communicated by what you do...not what you try to convince others.  Your mouth may say you're being YOU but your body and eyes might be showing others just how afraid you really are.  Think about it.

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