"Stop jumping into bed with
brothers YOU DON’T KNOW. That means fewer opportunities for men to cheat."
- anonymous MAN
Let's define the word KNOW. Do you know a dude just because you've been talking to him for a while? He took you out a few times? Maybe you even met his twin pitbulls? Fed 'em a few times? Or maybe you studied ESPN for a week and shot the breeze about his favorite foozeball team so you would win brownie points and get a few laughs out of him? Hmmm?!
REALITY: You don't know a man just because you believe you've uncovered a few details about him. You know a man when you get to the core of what his life consists of.
Let's define the word KNOW. Do you know a dude just because you've been talking to him for a while? He took you out a few times? Maybe you even met his twin pitbulls? Fed 'em a few times? Or maybe you studied ESPN for a week and shot the breeze about his favorite foozeball team so you would win brownie points and get a few laughs out of him? Hmmm?!
REALITY: You don't know a man just because you believe you've uncovered a few details about him. You know a man when you get to the core of what his life consists of.
"Observe him when you are with him. Do you have his home
number? Work number? Have you seen where he lives? Where he works? Is he
secretive? Did you ask if he’s married or engaged? How does he treat other
people? Listen to what he says, NOT what you want to hear." - anonymous
MAN
It's called having a high standard. And not the type of standard where you only deal with guys with money or status (whatever that is). Having a high standard means ANYONE who wants to achieve a place of intimacy with you (physically AND MENTALLY) needs to meet certain requirements that you have. (Requirements such as being a good listener, calling several times a day and checking on you, quality time with deep convo, introducing you to his family, being motivated, hard-working and most importantly, HIS WORDS AND ACTIONS MATCH.)
I mean...aren't you worthy of that? Stop letting your butt cheeks define who you are and let your personality win the love and attention of a man. Yes...I'm especially talking to the chicks who have pictures online showing every area but their face. (Y'all heffas need a hug).
Can you imagine how the rate of infidelity would decrease if women would have a MORAL requirement for sleeping with a man rather than a financial or physical one? (I know it's got my head spinnin' too).
It takes TWO TO TANGO. We all hear how some women say men are dogs...sniffing around and waiting to pounce on the next big butt and a smile. BUT WAIT...DID HE RAPE HER? Or did SHE want it just as bad as he did? Ummhmm...
And honestly...I think that many women who claim to prefer only a physical connection with a man are just afraid of giving away control. Often times I believe she uses the "get to you before you get to me" mentality. Only problem is, your sexual high comes down at some point. And afterwards, your conscience (hopefully you have one of those) rears its head and reminds you that you need to have a seat (and an appointment with your gynecologist).
Yeah I know hormones are a b*tch, but if you wonder why you can't trust a man's behavior...it's usually because of some woman who LOWERED HER STANDARDS to let him do what SHE ALLOWED HIM TO DO. Or, he responded to the advances that she threw him.
