Porsha from Housewives of Atlanta is Pissed at Wendy Williams

Porsha of "Real Housewives of Atlanta" was interviewed by Atlanta's V-103 about her 
disappointment with Wendy Williams and her comments on Porsha's recent divorce.

“You know what? It’s just enough. It’s enough of women of power, women of color, not supporting each other. Like, every time I see her say something about me, I’m disappointed in her. She’s calling me ‘less than smart’; she’s less than a woman. You shouldn’t do that,” Porsha  said. “I’ve been through a very traumatic situation that hurt me. All I’m trying to do is stand and be strong and possibly inspire somebody else, and all she does is knock me down. But this is the same woman who said that I should’ve had a baby by my ex to get cash. Really? Never. Never stoop that low. So for me, I have no thoughts on Wendy, at all.” 

Wendy never builds people up in a positive way, definitely not black women.And for me, I feel like it’s low and it’s just sad,” she said. “But…she only fools the people in her audience. If you go to her Instagram and Twitter, it’s a completely different opinion. So for me I feel like her audience is just like clap-clap-clap, say ‘yeah’, say ‘yeah, stupid’, whatever. 

 I feel like with Wendy, it's never personal with her.  She's always going to catch hell because of 
her format of dishing gossip, but a story is a story to her.
She is going to gossip about Madonna just like she gossiped about Whitney.  Now I will say in the reality world arena, she doesn't seem to have much respect (overall) for certain people (flashback to her interview with Draya).

It comes with the business.  If your purpose for stardom came from being married to a high profile man, then all details (good or bad) will be front and center for discussion.  That's the contract she signed, and the nature of the entertainment beast.

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Do You Judge A Potential Mate Too Harsh, or Not Hard Enough?

There is a difference between a person who has a checklist of what they want and don't want in a mate versus having a standard.  Meaning, there are some people who really are their own worst enemy and will likely have to experience loneliness before they come off of their high horse and stop being so critical of a potential good catch.  But these people shouldn't be confused with a person who has a standard of what they know they are looking for.


FOR EXAMPLE...There is a difference between someone who is GOING THROUGH SOMETHING and someone who is ABOUT THAT LIFE.

Like a person in-between jobs because of hard times compared to a person who is in-between jobs because they're unreliable and irresponsible.

Like a person who had a brush with the law before, and someone whose New Years Resolution is to update his mug shot the cops have on file.

A person who might have gotten weak at one point and stepped out on their mate and someone who makes a hobby out of entertaining other prospects.  (BEFORE YOU BLACK OUT ON WHAT I JUST SAID....I am not condoning cheating, so don't even go there...I'm only speaking of the difference in mindset.)

Everybody has a threshold of what they will and won't accept, but the problem is when we don't understand when we're either judging a book by it's cover too soon, or when we're not calling a spade a spade. (I love using cliches to prove a point - I'm lying, I just gagged myself.)

It's important we step back and make sure we understand that fact because some of y'all may have let go of a good thing because of overreacting to something that wasn't a habit, but more of an imperfect moment or timeframe.

Make sure you know the difference.

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